Sex Grudges or the Importance of Determined Enthusiasm
It is more important to keep trying than it is to give up after failures.
When you get hurt, it’s more important to forgive, forget, and try again than it is to defend yourself.
My husband cares more about my showing up in bed in a negligee wanting to have sex with him than he cares about my actual technique.
If I try to bake his favorite dessert, it is more important I tried than if I burnt it into a charred mess.
When I feel my soul dying in the marriage, it is more important to sit him down for a heart to heart or fight than it is to “selflessly” hold it in and turn cold.
It is more important that you are doing everything you can to eat right and look beautiful for him than it is that you actually lose the weight.
He wants to know you love him and trying and showing up repeatedly is the best way to prove that.
While a man can easily buy proficiency in cooking and related skills, there’s no price that one can put on heart-felt determined enthusiasm in a partner.