Then There’s Me
This author wrote a brilliant piece about his relationship with a woman that had unrealistic expectations of him, while expecting every consideration in return.
Sadly, I’ve run into women like this myself, which is why I’m re-blogging it here.
Kudos to “The Private Man” for posting a link to this blog. His blog post on the article is here: http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2014/09/30/the-frustration-of-expressing-masculine-emotions/
I do love you. Generally, we’re on the same wavelength and communicate well. We go together as a couple; I feel an overwhelming sense of pride when you are by my side. Then there is the chemistry–it makes my head spin. I obsess about you all the time. I have no control over it. And, you are simply gorgeous.
But we are dysfunctional in the sex department. Now we have too much baggage to reconcile. We’re in relationship hell, so even if you do change, I’d feel you were doing it out of obligation and not desire, which completely ruins the chemistry. So we’re fucked (the Catch-22 kind of fucked).
I’ve admitted my insecurities are a factor in all this. They are what they are. I disclosed them so that you might understand where I’m coming from. But I don’t think you understand.
If your goal was to…
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